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Embracing Messes: On Motherhood and the Being in Between
“Mom, I made a big mess!” my daughter exclaimed with a mixture of pride and excitement, eyebrows arched, eyes wide. Shuddering in anticipation of what I was …
Inspired by Story: Reflections on Storytelling and Motherhood
Over the past winter, as my daughter’s vocabulary expanded and her penchant for longer books increased, she entered into a spontaneous storytelling phase that still continues today. …
Capturing the Light of the Everyday
It’s Easter Sunday, right during the pre-dinner bustle in the kitchen, and I’m following my son as he toddles about the kitchen, looking for mischief. Walking up …
An Unfinished Love List
I love wrapping my hands around a warm mug of tea in the winter. I love how my son rests his head on my shoulder and strokes …
Something Around the Corner: A New Year’s Eve Reflection
Squirming in his highchair, my son swats the spoon from my hand, sending splatters of yogurt across the floor while my daughter climbs across my lap. What …
Surprised by Simplicity
“I want to share with you, Mom,” my daughter declares as I plop a plate of apples and peanut butter in front of her while half turned …
On Smartphones, Improv, and Presence
It was the sweetest little wooden Noah’s ark set that I snagged for a few bucks at a thrift sale. I couldn’t wait to bring it home, …
To Lose is To Save
Settling into my chair, I open the little white bible gifted to me on the occasion of my First Communion. Sturdy and satisfying to hold, I like …
Remembering Summer
After dinner one Sunday at my parent’s house, someone pulls out a stack of old photos. Sudden gasps and bursts of laughter arise in every corner of …
The Art of Imitation
Thump! The laundry basket hits the ground with a thud, and I take a seat next to it, preparing to fold. My daughter peers in and pulls …
On Motherhood and Play
My daughter shrugged her shoulders and smiled with squinty eyes as we clinked our respective beverages, imaginary and real, together. I sipped my coffee as she continued …
30 Days of Writing: On the Power of Consistency
Closing the door to the bedroom, I breathed a sigh of relief as I tiptoed down our creaky hallway to the stairs. The toddler was in bed …
On the Meaning of Mid-Winter
Mud-streaked snow covers the ground in patches and the sky settles like a grey blanket over the rooftops. Cheery twinkle lights on evergreen trees have become dull brown …
Toasting 2022: An Ode to Halfway Dreams
It was sometime in early January of 2022 when I was in the midst of planning a party that would never actually happen. Some of my dearest …
Combatting Perfectionism During the Holiday Season
Last year before Christmas, the time came for my family to pick out a tree. It was my daughter’s first Christmas, and I was giddily excited to …
A Season of Surrender: Reflections on Childbirth in the Fall
When I first found out that the due date for my second child was in October, I was immediately thrilled. Cuddling a newborn in the fall somehow …
Finding Freedom in Motherhood
I can very easily remember the days when I lived in Boston as a graduate student, sipping lattes in cute coffee shops, running alongside the Charles River …
Suggestions for Self-Care during Postpartum
The postpartum period is a vulnerable, humbling, yet beautiful time of growth in the journey of motherhood, particularly for first time moms. However, the needs of the …
The Legacy of Style: How the Women in My Life Shaped My Closet
Have you ever wondered why you are drawn to certain colors when you shop? Or why you often buy multiple versions of the same item? Or why …
Musings on My First Year of Motherhood
A few months after my daughter was born, I remember turning to my husband one autumn evening and saying, “You know, I’m just realizing that this is …
5 Habits for a Summer of Renewal
The summertime always brings with it a fresh air of possibility, excitement, and delight. The warm sunshine revives the once cold earth, gardens flourish, and the grass …
Everyday Creativity
Have you ever observed a child draw, paint, or play make- believe? If yes, you know what a delight it is to watch them become enveloped within …
Handing on the Heritage of Faith
You are my inheritance O Lord.” This response from Psalm 16, in one breath, affirms an omnipotent, all-loving God as a familial treasure, passed down to every …
Engagement: A Sacrifice for the Beauty of Marriage
Article originally published on As the Builder Builds https://asthebuilderbuilds.home.blog/2020/02/18/engagement-a-sacrifice-for-the-beauty-of-marriage/ The morning after I became engaged to the love of my life, everything seemed aglow with the excitement …
Becoming an Artist in Your Own Home
Article originally posted on La Petite Fleur Magazine https://lapetitefleurmag.com/articles/ Have you ever entered someone else’s home only to marvel in amazement at the warmth, style and character …
We live in an age of immediacy that is enhanced by the influential forces around us- from the voices of the media, politics, fitness programs, and …
The Gift of Childbirth
Giving birth to my daughter was and still is the most difficult, insane and incredible task I have ever accomplished. I still remember quite vividly one moment …
Marriage and Theatre: An Unlikely Connection
As a young actress in college, I was taught that acting was both a representation of the truth under imaginary circumstances and a gift of self. Enraptured …
To Become What We Receive
Have you ever been to a birthday party where the celebrated person hates being the center of attention? It happens particularly with little children frightened by the …
To The Heights
The man in this photo is my Dad. He is resting on the edge of one of the largest mountains on the East Coast after hiking up …
On The Road Again
Road-trips have been a part of my life for as long as I can remember. For almost every summer of my life, I found myself packed in …
Hope Against Hope
What does it mean to hope against hope? I have found this question scattered throughout my many thoughts as of late. It holds especial significance during this …
The Use of the Useless
Useless. It’s a rather cruel word that stings a sensitive part of the human person. Being called useless is a cold slap in the face that reduces …
The Force of Beauty
Semper Incipit. Always begin. Every beginning, in its rise, draws with it a sense of refreshing renewal, just as the sun climbs the sky each morning, gradually …
A Moment of Your Time
With the ending of summer, the beginning of a school year, with departures and the goodbyes that accompany them, the role of time amongst these moments has …
A Hidden Language
Imagine: four smooth walls, the ceiling, the floor, and you. Nothing more. That’s all there is. Everything is uncomfortably bare with the one exception of the inner …